Cyndi - Themhoffers

Today, our daughter becomes ours forever. We’ve said goodbye to twelve children. We’ve held tiny hands for a season, knowing they were not ours to keep. We’ve loved deeply, even when it meant letting go — because that’s what foster care is. We believe in reunification. We support families. We’ve stood in the middle — the in-between. But sometimes, reunification doesn’t happen. And when it doesn’t, we become the ones who stay. She came into our lives when nothing was certain. But what’s always been certain… is how fiercely we love her. She is brave, joyful, strong, and so deeply loved. There’s heartbreak woven into this day — because adoption always carries both love and loss. But today… we celebrate. The unexpected way love writes its own story. And the gift of becoming her forever. I didn’t give her life, but life gave me her. And being chosen to be her mama is the greatest gift of my life.

Buying in bulk, making homemade when I can, and doing my best to keep our family fed without blowing the budget. This $125 meat haul turned into 20 meals, and let me tell you… planning ahead is what we should all be doing. Grocery prices might be wild, but this mama’s got a plan. Do you meal prep or buy in bulk too? Let’s swap tips!

Future me is happy! #familymealprep

Love, Love bug, Lovie girl 💕 came to our home at 8 days old and just 4.5lbs. 18m now and has so much personality

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She’s a real one and can’t nothing come between us @Positively Paige

Excited to see how the kids will play with this. Would love all the ideas #mudkitchen

Checked out a new grocery store! Will keep trying it for a few weeks @Joe V’s Smart Shop #joevsmartshop

Day 5 of Disney dinner: The goofy movie. One of our favorite throwback movies ever! #disneydinnerandamovie #themhoffersdodisney

Replying to @Tori I’m trying again!! #sourdougheasterbunny

Good morning. Happy 🥰

Day 4 of Disney dinners and tonight we’re feeling all the feels—because it’s Inside Out night! From Joy smiley fries to Disgust Broccoli we cooked up something for almost every emotion. Loving this magical little tradition before we head to Disney!@Disney Parks @Disney #disneydinnerandamovie #themhoffersdodisney

Replying to @Jill O rings are from @James Avery Artisan Jewelry

Such a score! Happy kids!

We made it Disney World! Excited to be here for the week! Join us for a family vacation! #themhoffersdodisney @Disney Parks

I clean the same spaces over and over, Not because they stay clean, but because they’re lived. I love a lived in house and a comfy house my babies love to be. But a clean house keeps us all happy 🩷#momsoftiktokover30 #cleaningmyhouse #cleanwithme

🥹my daughter

Easy breakfast to make with your kids! #marthawhite #marthawhitepartner